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<2006년 6월 19일 (월요일) >
Dear Seongja,
I have had a very nice weekend. As you know I met B on Saturday afternoon. We caught the bus out to the Art Museum and saw the photographic exhibition there. Unfortunately, because it closed at 6pm, we had to rush through some of the exhibition. Never-the-less, the exhibition was very good and just being with B was pleasure enough for me.
After the exhibition we went to one of the restaurants at the entrance to Moaksan and had dinner there. We then caught a bus back into the city, arriving about 8pm and we went to a restaurant by Gaeksa that we know to have a glass of wine and to talk. When the restaurant closed at 9.30pm I walked B to her mother's apartment, which is near Daga Park.
Yesterday, B spent the day with her mother but we met at the Wansan bus terminal just before 5pm and took the bus to Gimje together. In Gimje B played the piano for me in her house and we listened to some music. Then we went out for dinner and after dinner we walked around Gimje. After dinner, we sat and talked under the night sky for a long time. It was a very beautiful way to spend an evening.
I can tell you Seongja, I am so deeply in love with B. I treasure every moment that we can have together and I miss her dearly when we are not together. I know that I really want to marry B and I cannot imagine how sad my life would be if I cannot have a future with her. She is very intelligent, beautiful, talented and I feel that she is my Soul Mate. I am sure that B likes me very much but, unfortunately, B seems very frightened of the idea of marriage. I am not sure what I can do to make her understand that marriage does not mean that she will lose her own sense of identity and her security. I guess I just have to remember to be patient and to try and show her as much as I can how much I really do love her and care for her. There is nothing more I can do, because she must make up her own mind about her feelings. I know that she is worth waiting for.
There you are Seongja, I have reported everything to you like you requested. Maybe you have some advise for me as my trusted matchmaker?